Yay! I lost weight!
Needing to watch my weight is a relatively new development for me. When I was young, I was a skinny-skinny-skinny eating machine.
Well … things have changed.
Several years ago, my husband lost 60 pounds. People, he reports, kept asking him how he did it, but when he told them he watched what he ate and exercised, which is what I’ve just done, they’d say, “Yeah, I’ve tried that. It doesn’t work.”
I’m no expert, but, yeah, it does … which doesn’t mean it’s easy or quick.
Things I found helpful:
Get a calorie-counting app on your phone, one that tracks calories expended on exercise as well as calories consumed.
You will need to exercise every day to keep within the calorie count. If you don’t, you will be hungry and being hungry makes you want to start killing people. And turn on the “track my activity” feature, which will minus out calories for the walking it senses you are doing.
Find exercise you will do. VERY important.
Do not let yourself get hungry. Seems counter-intuitive, but if you grit your teeth and try to use willpower to not eat, you will lose control and eat anything (and everything) within reach. Eat frequently and choose things that will keep you full, containing, in particular, protein, even though these foods aren’t the lowest in calories. Do not try to survive on lettuce.
Choose whole grains. Things like brown rice and whole-wheat pasta take your body longer to digest, leaving you feeling full longer.
Don’t make any food forbidden. Sure, you can eat it. Just fit it into your calorie count. I drink lattes (skim milk, no sugar: an easy adjustment) and, at dinner, wine.
Be realistic: Slow and (relatively, imperfectly) steady is how this works.