I hate packing. I mean, I really despise it.
It started when my children were small. I would be
packing for them as well as myself – and I also did all the other tasks related
to traveling: I bought the plane tickets, boarded the dog, arranged the car
service, stopped the mail and the newspaper, sent in the “vacation watch” form
to the local police, cleaned out the fridge so we wouldn’t come home to
something hideous …
… And my husband, without fail, as he stuck piles of
clothes – that I had laundered and folded – into his suitcase, would say, “OK,
I’m done packing. Why aren’t you?”
He thought he was being funny. He didn’t realize how
close he was to getting smacked.
Besides the desire to smack someone, packing brings out
all my worst perfectionist tendencies. It
seems like it has to be done exactly
right. And when my children were small, it kind of had to be. You needed to
have distractions, new things they hadn’t seen before, packed in the diaper
bag, along with, of course, diapers and changes of clothes and snacks and, I learned this one the hard way as a very
new parent, baby pain-killer in case an ear infection flared while you were in
the air. My father-in-law once, during a long car trip, saw me pull so many
things out of that diaper bag that he compared it to Mary Poppin’s magic carpetbag.
It’s getting easier. My kids are teens now and pack for
themselves. Now, I just have a little look-see and -- I can't help myself -- ask things like “Did you
bring underwear?” and “How about your retainer?”
Still, the kids know to steer clear of me when I’m packing,
even if my husband doesn’t.
Your husband sounds like a really great guy, so you should be a lot nicer to him...
ReplyDeleteHi, Honey.
DeleteAs a mom, this post really spoke to me. I am typically in your role- stopping mail, newspaper, arranging pet care, reservations, maps, treats, health insurance cards, packing....
ReplyDeleteI remember one week long trip to Florida when my kids were little and I created a staging area to organize all the stuff we would need to be gone for a while as well as all the duplicate treats for the flights etc. About 20 minutes before we needed to leave- my husband finally packed..himself. Let's just say I wasn't really thrilled with him in that interval. Must be a male/female thing!